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HerAbyss tells you how to plan a date that your man will think is perfect
Walks down the beach, watching the sun set, candle-lit dinners, going to the movies- it is all very romantic, but not for your man. Dating coaches find that a man’s idea of romance and perfect dates is very different from a woman’s. So when you set out to plan the perfect date for your man, what do you need to be thinking about? HerAbyss tells you what kinds of dates men find interesting.
The difference in dating perspectives for men and women comes from the fact that men are more goal driven. They fantasise less and are more restless. They are always looking for a challenge. Therefore their ideal date would need a climax, an experience. They would prefer an adventure over sitting at a table for two in a dimly lit restaurant.
If there is one common turn on for men, it is cooking with their partner.
Make this simple task into your perfect date.
Pick out a recipe together, go shopping for ingredients and then make the dish together.
He will see this as a mission. There is a definite goal at the end. And so he will definitely enjoy it more than being served dinner.
This is the time when women will find their partners drop their defences. When you both sit down at the end of a productive day you have shared, he is more likely to let you in and talk.
Women will find themselves sharing their inner most feelings after, for example, candle lit dinners, while men do so after a shared activity or experience.
Go to a Firing Range
Another date idea we recommend is going to a firing range or for a session of archery.
Men find a woman with a weapon alluring. They have always been attracted to confidence and strength in a woman.
You could even ask him to help you with aiming or to show you how to use guns. It will be a huge boost to his ego.
Paintball or Laser-tag Fight
Or go for a Paintball or laser-tag fight. Everyone has heard that saying, ‘a man loves the chase’, well give him one. Let him hunt you down. Play a game of prey and preyed.
House of Horrors
Be the damsel in distress. Go to a house of horrors. There is nothing more a man enjoys than making his girlfriend feel safe. Even if it is from make believe ghosts!
His Favorite Game
If you are up for it, get tickets to his favorite game. But do not pretend to like what he likes. They will see right through it. Fortunately, men are not as complicated as women. If you do not like watching sports and have tickets to a game, give it to him and tell him he can go with some mates. He will still think it is romantic.
Men love spontaneity. They will love a simple date that is unexpected more than a scheduled date night. Get tickets to a game or even a play or a movie and surprise him after work. He will love it if the date was not planned beforehand.
Or better yet, write him a mystery note telling him to meet you somewhere. Men so love themselves some mystery.
Around the World Food Tour
Spice up the usual dinner at a restaurant by planning an ‘around the world food tour’ where you aim to eat every course from a different cuisine.
Dress Up Like He Wants You To
Dress up the way he wants you to for a change. Take him shopping and listen to his suggestions. Every time you wear that dress, he will know you are wearing it because he liked it.
A Few Tips
If you have any other ideas for a perfect date for men, please let us know in the comments section below